Flourish in Giving – What We Are NOT to Give (Part 3)

Do Not Give Offense in Anything

    In this the final lesson of our three-part mini study of what not to give, I would like you to consider the inferred instruction that we find in several places in the New Testament: Do not give offence so that our ministry may not be blamed (2 Corinthians 6:3).

    We need to realize that lax attitudes about bad habits (refusing to work on our patience, our holiness, or our purity) does not just affect ourselves, it can damage our influence for good (Titus 1:16), it can also sully the reputation of the congregation we are a part of, and it will inevitably give opportunity for the world to ridicule God’s way and blaspheme His word and name (Romans 2:23-24). Consider for a moment why Jesus admonished the Laodicean church for being lukewarm in Revelation 3:15-16; if they were hot they would be zealous in their obedience, if they were cold they would simply separate themselves from God and the church, but they were lukewarm and it was very harmful to the work and respectability of the church, and lowering the One for who the church is named in the eyes of the world because these members were known to be Christians but their conduct was far from Christ-like.  

    We, specifically, are given duties in Titus 2:3-5 that we must accomplish. Why? So “that the word of God may not be blasphemed.”  If we are not conducting ourselves reverently, and if we are slandering others and drinking, we cannot be teachers of good things. And we are given the task of being an example and a teacher to the younger women so they may learn to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, and obedient to their own husbands. Otherwise, God’s word may be blasphemed, made fun of, and altogether rejected. Our behavior is seen, and our words are heard, by more people than we think! “I thought she was a Christian?!” “She talks down about her husband and kids a lot – isn’t she a church goer?”  “Well, I guess if she’s acting like that, I can too!” “If she doesn’t follow this command, why should I?” “She complains all the time, storming around, ranting about everything, why would I listen to her advice?”

    How do we avoid giving offence and keep God’s word from being blasphemed?

    Jesus instructed His twelve apostles to “be wise as serpents and harmless as doves” (Matthew 10:16) because they would be like sheep amongst wolves and they needed to be always mindful of their intent (to preach “the kingdom of heaven is at hand,” Matthew 10:7) and retain their pure, untainted motive (to reach the lost sheep of Israel, Matthew 10:5).

    It was, and still is, vital to be mindful of our intent:

• to serve God humbly and faithfully, Luke 17:5-10,
• to be holy in all our conduct, 1 Peter 1:15-16,
• to proclaim His praises, 1 Peter 2:9
• to do good so that God is glorified, Matthew 5:14-16
• to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus, 1 Peter 2:18
• etc.

    And to always remember why we are doing it:

• He is God, our Creator, and worthy of our every service, Acts 17:26-27, Romans 6, Ephesians 2:1-13, Jude 20-25
• He called us out of darkness into His marvelous light, 1 Peter 2:9
• We hope to be with Him in eternity, 1 John 3:1-3
• We want others to share in that hope, too, Mark 16:15-16

    Jesus instructed this and exemplified it – we need to look to Him and follow His footsteps:

“…let us lay aside every weight, and the sin that so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has set down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Hebrews 12:1-2 NKJV)

“…But when you do good and suffer, if you take it patiently, this is commendable before God. For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow in His steps: “Who committed no sin, nor was deceit found in His mouth”; who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously…” (1 Peter 2:20b-23 NKJV)

“He who says, “I know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps His word, truly the love if God is perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Him. He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.” (1 John 2:4-6 NKJV)

    We need to remember who God is – and all that He has done and all that He continues to do for us: His mercy and grace, His forgiveness, His patience, and His blessings – and who we are before Him: in dire need of His mercy and grace, in utter need of His forgiveness, in desperate need of His patience, and in humble appreciation of His bountiful blessings – so that we give no offense nor minimize God, His word, or His way in other's eyes.

    Guard yourself in faith (Ephesians 6:16) and obedience (James 4:7) so you do not give opportunity to the devil to lure you from God (Ephesians 4:27). Study God’s word daily, and attend worship services and Bible studies to learn with your brethren, to know the truth (Hebrews 5:14), so you do not give heed to fables or notions of men (1 Timothy 1:4, Titus 1:14). And give proper diligence to do what God has given you to do, as a Christian, and specifically as a woman, so that you do not give offence and God’s word is not blamed or blasphemed.

You can do it!! So can I!!   

Flourish in Giving – When Not to Give (Part 2)

Do Not Give Heed to Fables and Doctrines of Men

    Continuing our mini study of what not to give, let’s consider the instruction given by the apostle Paul to both Timothy and Titus: do not give heed (attention) to fables/Jewish fables, endless genealogies, and the commandments of men (1 Timothy 1:4, Titus 1:14). He was warning them against listening to anything that people have used/will use to justify their resistance to wholly obey God’s commands and what they will use to try to align God (and His way) with their existing beliefs. The Jews and the Gnostics (those who denied Jesus was deity who came in the flesh) used these devices to hold onto their former habits and ideas.

Side Note: In case of the Jews, one might argue that their ways were God’s ways because they should have been following the Law of Moses, but by Jesus’ time many of those laws had been modified to suit the people and therefore what many followed were only commandments of men (God’s commands changed in any way, big or small, by men become men’s commands). Consider, for example, Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:17-48 (“You have heard that it was said… (man’s modification), but I say to you… (the truth)”). After Jesus’ death, the New Covenant came into effect (Hebrews 10:9-10) and several of the New Testament letters are teaching the Jews to let go of their Judaism and simply follow Christ (see Paul’s letter to the Romans, for example, and the letter to the Hebrews).

    We can be just as guilty of using these devices. If what the preacher/teacher says is not scripturally sound – modifying God’s word and commands to please himself/his audience – and you give heed to his words, and base your faith and actions on what he says, never once checking to see if it is correct (consider Acts 17:11), then you are blindly following the commandments of men (read and think on 2 Timothy 4:3-4). And if you hold to it, because it checks a box in your moral conscience that you’ve attended “church” and that’s enough for you (that’s all you’re willing to give), then you are no different than the Jewish people who simply went through the motions of service (read and consider Malachi 1, Matthew 15:7-9).

“These people draw near to me with their mouth, and honour Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. And in vain they worship Me, teaching as doctrine the commandments of men.” (Matthew 15:8-9 NKJV)   

We are also guilty of these devices if we base our “goodness” and our “righteousness” on what we think the Bible says – “I’m pretty sure it’s in there, somewhere” – instead of knowing what it says through sincere study and application. If we do this then we are simply following our own made up notions, and we are giving a foothold to the devil to carry us further from the narrow way with fables, wives’ tales, and “every wind of doctrine” (Ephesians 4:14).

“…they have a zeal for God, but not according to knowledge. For they being ignorant of God’s righteousness, and seeking to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted to the righteousness of God.” (Romans 10:2-3 NKJV)

How do we avoid giving heed to these things?

• By exercising ourselves toward godliness (1 Timothy 4:7) and trusting in the living God (1 Timothy 4:10). 

    Go a little further in that same chapter and see the instructions given to Timothy – yes, Timothy was a preacher but the instructions he received are sound and useful for every Christian!

• Be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, faith, in purity (v12). This can only be accomplished when we submit to God and learn His way (see next two points).
• Give attention to reading, exhortation, to doctrine – meditate on these, give yourselves entirely to them, that your progress may be evident to all (vv13, 15).
• Take heed of yourself (your relationship with God) and the doctrine (His instructions), and continue in them (v16) 

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (Romans 12:2 NKJV)

    Give time and attention to reading God’s word, and not just reading, but thinking on it and obeying it – apply it to your life, see God’s wisdom, give Him the glory and thank Him for His provision. Don’t give attention to any ideas or commands that are not clearly founded in God’s word – it’s our responsibility to search “the Scriptures daily to find out if these things were so” (Acts 17:11). Remember, we need to know the True and Authentic so we can properly spot what is false (Hebrews 5:14) and keep not only ourselves, but our brethren from being led astray. God has provided all we need to know Him, the One True God – the very source of Truth. Don’t be content with everyone else’s knowledge, get your very own through careful study and application! Only then can you serve God with confidence, knowing you have submitted to His righteousness! Are you ready?   

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourish in Giving – What We Are Not to Give (Part 1)

    So far in our study we have learned that we must first give ourselves to God (Romans 12:1-2, 1 Peter 4:1-2) – this is vital to our learning, obeying, and flourishing – we must choose God over self. Next, we need to give thanks to God (1 Thessalonians 5:18, Hebrews 13:15, Colossians 1:12) – developing a sincere gratitude for God’s blessings will fortify our trust and encourage our obedience. After that, we looked at the need to give glory to God (Psalm 29:1-2, 1 Peter 2:9) – all we have is from God: our abilities, our wherewithal, time and opportunity (ex: Deuteronomy 8:18, 2 Corinthians 9:8, Ephesians 2:10). We are simply sharing from the abundant supply He has granted us (Psalm 68:19, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4) – so we need to give Him the praise, tell others that it was by His blessings you could be a benefit to them, and that it is God to whom all glory is due!

    Now, if you’re already flourishing in these areas; that is wonderful! Keep going! Keep growing!! And, if you’re desiring to flourish in these areas, keep trying! Discover what happens when you don’t give up!! Whatever stage of development you find yourself at, I would like you to consider and area to watch out for; a circumstance in which we are instructed NOT to give.

Do Not Give Place to the Devil  

    Throughout Ephesians 4 to 6, Paul teaches Christians how to walk worthy of the calling (Ephesians 4:1), and one of the many instructions he gives is found in chapter 4, verses 26-27: “”Be angry and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.” We are to resolve our quarrels quickly (Proverbs 17:14), otherwise we leave ourselves open to the devil’s temptations (consider God’s instruction about sin in Genesis 4:7, and Jesus’ instruction in Matthew 5:21-26).

    The command to not give place to the devil is applicable everywhere in our lives, not just in the matter of harbouring anger. Anytime we choose self over God we give the devil a foothold in our lives. For example: You choose __(fill in the blank)__ over attending worship services one week (or any other good and proper thing), the devil will certainly take advantage of that and feed you all sorts of lies as you struggle to justify your choice; he may even work to create more opportunities/invitations that keep you on the same selfish path, all in an effort to distract you from attending faith-fortifying assemblies/activities (remember what faith does to his fiery darts, Ephesians 6:16).

Don’t make it easy for the devil to claim you:

• Submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you (James 4:7)
• Put on the full armour of God, so that you can stand against the wiles (schemes) of the devil (Ephesians 6:11)  
• Be sober, be vigilant – the devil walks about looking for someone to devour; resist him – get help from your brethren, be a help to your brethren - we need to band together and stand against him (1 Peter 5:8-9)
• Keep watch over yourself (that you are in Jesus and walking as He walked, 1 John 2:3-6), stay on guard, and the wicked one will not touch you (1 John 5:18)

    When we flourish in giving ourselves to God, in giving thanks to Him, and in giving Him the glory, we are guarding ourselves from giving place to the devil – so keep flourishing in giving what is good and right to our gracious and loving Father in heaven and resist the temptation to give place to the devil!

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourish in Giving God the Glory

    Consider clay for a moment. If the lump of clay was to say to the sculptor, “I can do this on my own; I don’t need you,” what is going to happen? That lump will not gain any help from the world around it, quite the opposite; and try as it might, having no capacity within itself to change, it will remain as it is and become hardened.

    But the clay that submits to the water applied by the sculptor, knowing it is being prepared for something greater, endures the pressures applied by the sculptor’s careful hands and allows itself to be transformed from a lump to a beneficial vessel.

    God is our Creator – our Sculptor, if you will – and we are the clay. This is an oft used illustration in the Bible. Read and consider Isaiah 29:15-16; this is the clay that says it doesn’t need the Sculptor. But we, who have submitted to the Sculptor, and to the water He has provided (waters of baptism, Mark 16:15-16, Romans 6:3-4, 1 Peter 3:21), are being transformed under the properly applied pressure of God’s wise and loving hands (Hebrews 12:3-11, Ephesians 4:17-24) into beneficial people. And even as sculpted clay must go through fire (kiln) to be complete, so must we also endure the fiery trials of life – the testing of our faith – but in the end we will receive the salvation of our souls (read and think on 1 Peter 1:3-9).

“But now, O LORD, You are our Father; we are the clay, and You our potter; and all we are the work of Your hand.” (Isaiah 64:8 NKJV)   

     As we have already learned in this study, we must first, give ourselves to God, because without God we can do nothing, and it is only with Him that we have access to the life-changing blessings that He bestows in mercy and kindness toward us (Ephesians 1:3-14, 1 John 4:9-10). Second, we must learn to give thanks to God. He is our Creator and Sustainer, our goodness is nothing apart from Him (Psalm 16:2); we must develop an attitude of gratitude that declares daily – and many times throughout each day – our praise and thanksgiving for all He has done, continues to do, and promises to do!

    If you do not give ourselves to God and trust His word, if we do not appreciate all that He is and all that He does and learn to give thanks to Him in everything, then we will not be able to do what is decreed throughout the Bible: give glory to God.

“Give unto the LORD, O you mighty ones, give unto the LORD glory and strength. Give unto the LORD the glory due His name; worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness.” (Psalm 29:1-2 NKJV)

glory (Greek: doxa) means good opinion, praise, honour.  

    In reference to God it carries with it a declaration of God’s intrinsic worth and worthiness. All that God does gives rise to praise and our good opinion – everything He does is only ever for our good – our natural response to such loving goodness is to give praise and glory for such.

 “Oh, magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt His name together.” (Psalm 34:3 NKJV)

How to Give Glory to God:

    Abraham gave glory to God when He did not waver at God promises through unbelief – he wholly trusted and was fully convinced of God’s faithfulness, His power, and His capability – and was strong in faith (Romans 4:20-21). Abraham declared God, His worth, and His worthiness to be trusted and obeyed, by trusting and obeying Him! When we, like Abraham, wholly trust and obey God, we prove “what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Romans 12:2) and exhibit God’s wisdom to those around us.

    In Luke 17:11-19, one leper (one among ten others who were healed by Jesus), returned to Jesus, and with a loud voice glorified God, fell down at Jesus’ feet, and gave Him thanks. Jesus said, “Were there not any found who returned to give glory to God except this foreigner? Arise, go your way, your faith has made you well.” So giving glory to God involves faith, and it also includes turning to God in humbleness, proclaiming His praise for what He has done, and giving thanks to Him for the same. When we, like the leper, are helped, we should also have a heart like his that desires to immediately run to the Source of our help, joyfully proclaim His praises on the way, and fall to our knees before Him in thanksgiving.

    When we come to know who God is and who we are before Him we will understand that without Him we were hopeless (Ephesians 2:11-13), it is He who made us and not we ourselves (Psalm 100:3), and it is He who daily loads us with benefits (Psalm 68:19). These truths should motivate us to glorify Him by strengthening our faith, and by choosing to wholly trust Him and obey Him each day; it should fill our hearts with thanksgiving, and praise should spill over our lips in gratitude! These truths should cause us to joy in running to God, they should bring us to our knees in humble gratitude for His unfailing love and compassion! These truths should keep us from craving praise from men for what good we may accomplish (consider Matthew 6:1-4), and instead compel us to direct all praise and thanksgiving to God (Matthew 5:14-16) because He is the giver of every good and perfect gift (James 1:17); it is He – and it always will be He, who deserves both the credit and the glory!

    We were once like lowly lumps of clay, but by submitting to God’s sculpting, we are now able to do good works (Ephesians 2:10, 2 Corinthians 9:8) and be beneficial people (Titus 2-3, Galatians 6:9-10)! Give God the glory – and proclaim His praises – for transforming your life and sculpting you into a woman with talent and ability to benefit others, a women who humbly obeys God and proclaims His praises (1 Peter 2:9), and one who can endure beautifully to the end!

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourish in Giving Thanks to God

    God, through the apostle Paul, tells us that we are to use our words for good, specifically for giving of thanks (read and consider Ephesians 5:1-4), and we are instructed to give thanks always for all things (Ephesians 5:19-20) and in everything (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18), so it is certainly an area of giving in which we need to be flourishing!

“…in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18 NKJV)

    What can we give thanks for?

    A beginning place is thanking God daily for “life, breath, and all things” (Acts 17:25) because He is our Creator, Sustainer, and our faithful loving Father, but I think it is important to always work toward thanking God (and praising Him) for specific things. When we think about specifics we are developing a real gratitude for His wondrous blessings, and we are tuning our eyes to see them and preparing our hearts to give thanks to Him for each one of them!

“I will praise the name of God with a song, and I will magnify Him with thanksgiving.” (Psalm 69:30 NKJV)

Give Thanks to God For His Provision

    For His spiritual provision:

    God daily loads us with benefits, namely our salvation (Psalm 68:19)! Read and think on John 3:16-17, 1 John 4:9-10 and give thanks to God for qualifying us “to be partakers of the inheritance,” for delivering us, conveying us, redeeming us, and forgiving us (Colossians 1:12-14, also read Ephesians 1:3-23). Don’t limit your consideration and giving of thanks for Jesus’ sacrifice to just Sunday when you gather with the church to take communion (the Lord’s Supper), think about it and learn to appreciate it even more each day. Let your heart declare: “Thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57), “Thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ” (2 Corinthians 2:14), and “Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!” (2 Corinthians 9:15)

    For His physical provision:

    God grants us ability to work and obtain an income (Deuteronomy 8:18) – have you thanked Him yet today for your job and your ability to do it?  Read and consider Matthew 6:25-34. God provides us with food, drink, and clothing when we determine to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness. We are often taught as children to thank God for our meals, and most of us still purposefully pray in thanksgiving for our food, but how often do we pause in our closets and thank Him for our clothing? It’s another way to allow our thanksgiving to flourish!

    For His help in times of trouble:

    God is the Father of mercies and God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3-4), and He grants us access to “come boldly to the throne of grace” – at any time, as many times as needed – “to obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need” (Hebrews 4:15). He also wants to provide us with His peace – peace that guards our hearts and minds through Christ Jesus – all He asks of us is to give Him all our anxieties, make our requests known to Him through prayer and supplication with thanksgiving (Philippians 4:6-7). We may be frequent in our asking for His help but do we follow up each help with a prayer of thanks?

Give Thanks to God For Our Brethren

    Paul provided us with many examples of proclaiming thanks to God for his brothers and sisters in Christ:

“I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine making request for you with joy…” (Philippians 1:3-4)

“We give thanks to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your love for all the saints…” (Colossians 1:3-4)

“We give thanks to God always for you all, making mention of you in our prayers…” (1 Thessalonians 1:2)

“We are bound to give thanks to God always for you, brethren, as it is fitting, because your faith grows exceedingly, and the love of every one of you all abounds toward each other…” (2 Thessalonians 1:3)

    See also 2 Timothy 1:3 and Philemon 4-5

    Have you given thanks to God for your brethren? They too are a provision from God – who help us in our walk (2 Timothy 2:22)!

Give Thanks to God For All People And Those in Authority

    God gives us clear instruction in how to speak about “all men, for kings and all who are in authority,” – this includes MPs, MPPs, Prime Ministers, Governor-Generals, Senators, Governors, Members of Congress, Vice Presidents, Presidents, and those campaigning for these positions – we are to make supplications (fervent, heartfelt pleas), intercessions (pray on their behalf), and giving of thanks for all of them. We, who know God, who know of His power and ability, who know of His goodness and love, are to be praying for these men and women – fervently, diligently, humbly, imploringly and thankfully! They too are a provision from God (read and think on Romans 13:1-7)!

Give Thanks to God Continually With Praise:

    Whatever we do in word or deed, we are to do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, and we are to give thanks to the Father through Him (Colossians 3:17) – thanking God for life, ability, mobility, His blessings (health, nourishment, clothing, our senses, transportation), His grace (forgiveness, His word to guide us, His help, etc.), and for opportunities to do good (Ephesians 2:10, Galatians 6:9-10, Titus 3:14).

“Therefore by Him let us continually offer the sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of our lips, giving thanks to His name.” (Hebrews 13:15 NKJV)

• If you awoke to this day – give thanks to God!
• If you have heard the gospel and obeyed it – give thanks to God!
• If you have obeyed God’s commands and discovered His wisdom in providing those instructions – give thanks to God!
• If you had food to eat, water to drink, and clothing to wear - give thanks to God!
• If you see His goodness in your day (Matthew 5:16) – give thanks to God!
• If you have been helped by your brethren – give thanks to God!
• If you were able to help another person – give thanks to God!
• If you have asked Him for help and been helped – give thanks to God!
• If you live in a country that has laws for your safety – give thanks to God!

    Give thanks to God often and always! Be specific – it will help you to remember and appreciate all that God has done, all that He continues to do, and all that He promises to do! Are you ready to flourish in giving? Give thanks to God!

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourish Even More in 2024 in Giving

    If the Lord wills, over the next few weeks I would like to dig into a study about giving, so we can flourish even more in it! God generously gives us all things (1 Timothy 6:17-19, James 1:5), and He does this so that we can give to others (2 Corinthians 1:3-4, 9:8)!

    How do we cultivate a generous, giving heart? I think we must first give ourselves to God. We need to know and trust God and His word, only then can we be imitators of God (Ephesians 5:1), and be generous, like He is, in all good things.

    Jesus said, “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. And whoever cannot bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple… whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple.” (Luke 14:26-27, 33)  

    We cannot let our parents ideas of what is right, our siblings notions of goodness, nor our own feelings come before serving God and obeying His word; even if it’s what our parents “have always done,” even if our siblings now call us a stick in the mud, and especially if we’re beginning to think we’ve already done enough/learned enough to be “okay.” As true Christians, we are part of the kingdom of God and Jesus Christ is our King (1 Timothy 6:13-16), are you willing to give up all other rule and authority in your life to follow Him in His way? Take time to read and consider 1 John 2:3-6.

“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (Romans 12:1-2 NKJV)  

    God does not ask too much of us when He commands us to sacrifice our own notions, ideas, and desires so that we can be transformed into a new person created in true righteousness and holiness (Ephesians 4:17-24). Giving ourselves to Him, allowing His instructions and commands to transform us (so we no longer look, sound, nor act like the world), is the only way to prove to both ourselves and others around us that God’s will is good and acceptable and perfect!

    When we give ourselves to God we do not let anyone’s opinion sway us – no matter if they be family, friend, or self – we will compare words with God’s word; if what is said does not align with what God has said, we stick with God – we submit to Him, Our Creator and Father, not to the person in error. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it. What God commands us to give up is minuscule in comparison to what He gives us in return (Psalm 68:19, Romans 8:18, 2 Corinthians 4:17)!

    Please open your Bible and take time to think on these passages: Galatians 2:20, Matthew 16:24-27/Luke 9:23-26, and Romans 1:16-17   

“Therefore since Christ suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind, for he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, that he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh for the lusts of men, but for the will of God.” (1 Peter 4:1-2 NKJV)

    Are you ready to flourish in giving? God asks us to first give ourselves to Him, that we may do His will and be proof that it is worthy of doing! God is faithful and His promises are true! Trust His word – it is only ever for your good – obey His commands and give yourself wholly to Him!

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourishing in Peace - The Faithful Will Find Peace

“Mark the blameless man, observe the upright; for the future of that man is peace.” (Psalm 37:37 NKJV)

    Have you considered that fact that you can be at peace knowing that one day you will be at peace? This is not a “fake it ‘til you make it” idea, quite the opposite. Fully trusting in God, believing that no matter what you are going through, He will strengthen you and help you every step of the way, brings peace.

    My Mom had a phrase that became synonymous with her: “This too shall pass.” I know now that it was said as a reminder to both herself and the person she was speaking with to ‘be at peace, and trust that peace will come.’

    David wrote these words to show that those who are blameless in God’s sight, who walk uprightly in humble obedience, they will find peace. He closes this psalm with even more peace-providing facts for the righteous:

“…the salvation of the righteous is from the LORD; He is their strength in the time of trouble. And the LORD shall help them and deliver them; He shall deliver them from the wicked, and save them, because they trust in Him.” (Psalm 37:39-40 NKJV)

    These verses remind me of the praise Peter offered to God in 1 Peter 1:3-9, please take the time to read this passage. Our faith is proven and our trust is fortified through various trials and in the end, salvation!

“Oh, taste and see that the LORD is good, blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” (Psalm 34:8 NKJV)

    Are you ready to feel at peace while you wait for peace to come? Dig into God’s word – start with the Psalms (31, 34, 40, are all good psalms to meditate on!), read the letter to the Ephesians – fill your mind with all the good God has done, all the blessings He continues to provide, all the promises of help and hope He has promised to those who love Him and faithfully serve Him! 

    Let your peace of mind, your “this too shall pass” mindset, be an example to those who are searching for hope and peace. Point them to God and His way, show them how to lead an upright and blameless life before Him, show them how to walk in peace, fully trusting our glorious God and Father to fulfill all that He has promised!

You can flourish in peace! God will provide! Trust Him and remain faithful to His way!

You can do it! So can I!!

Flourishing in Peace 101

“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion. Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” (Romans 12:15-18 NKJV)

    If there was a class called “How to Live Peaceably 101,” Romans 12 and 13 would be the curriculum!!

    Looking at just the small portion I have selected from chapter 12, we find so much valuable information on how to live in a peaceful way with others:

• Don’t let jealousy or revenge taint your love for others – be joyful in their joy and feel their hurts as though they were your own (v15)
• Don’t name drop and brand brag. Exhibit your understanding of 1 Timothy 6:6-8. Be down to earth, allowing people to feel at ease and valued while they are with you (v16)
• Be a listener – a REAL listener, not a 'locked-n-loaded-just-waiting-to-respond-er.' Listen and let others share and develop their thoughts. Pray for wisdom, practice humility (v16)
• Never become a mud-slinger, even if you’ve already been hit. God tells us to do the exact opposite (Matthew 5:44, Romans 12:19-21)! Go to Him, seek the greater good for everyone involved (v17)
• Provide good to all situations. Do what is honourable, good, and proper; let that be the lasting impression you leave with all people. See also 1 Thessalonians 5:15 (v17)
• It is within your power and capability – “as much as depends on you” – to be peaceable with all men. 

"Do not be overcome by evil , but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:21 NKJV)

    Take time to read Romans 12 and 13 this week. Take time to really discern the things that you need to work on. God wants us to behave like Christians, His children, reflecting His light into the world around us. Use your baskets to gather your blessings not to cover your lampstand!

You can do it! So can I!!

Righteousness Leads to Flourishing Peace

“The work of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness will be quietness and assurance forever.” (Isaiah 32:17 NKJV)

    The Berean Study Bible says, “…the service of righteousness will be quiet confidence forever.” That is what righteousness will give you – enduring quiet confidence, assurance forever!

    Faith is confidence in God. Peace is a quiet, calm confidence that we are living right before God and we are accepted by Him.

    The first epistle of John is filled with confidence-building statements. “By this you know…” and “By this we know…” are found 18 times in this one epistle! Please take time over the next few days to read through 1 John 1-5 and note these statements that give assurance to God’s children!

    When we do the things that John outlines, we can have peace with God! Living right before God – “keep His commandments and do those things that are pleasing in His sight” (1 John 3:22) – will result in “know”ledge (“By this we know…”), “confidence” (1 John 2:28), “boldness” (1 John 3:21), “assurance” (1 John 3:19), and “perfection” (spiritual maturity, 1 John 4:12-19).

    It is worth every effort to learn what is right and pleasing to God (Ephesians 5:8-10, 15-17)! You can experience true peace and quiet, confident assurance of hope through Jesus Christ! God promises it! He has provided all we need to know and to do in order to attain it! Use your time wisely, walk in the light and find out what is acceptable to the Lord, and come to understand His will so you can flourish in peace!

You can do it! So can I!! 

Remove Roots of Bitterness So You Can Flourish in Peace

    Last week we looked at Hebrews 12:14. We learned that in order to flourish in peace we must not compromise our holiness by calling wrong right for the sake of peace. This week, I would like to look at the verse that follows:

“Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God, lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled.” (Hebrews 12:14-15 NKJV)

    Defiled is the opposite of holy. We don’t want defiled to describe ourselves or others. Defiled means we’ve chosen our ways over God’s ways; holiness was not sought for and therefore not obtained (consider Proverbs 14:12, 14, and 16). When we realize our situation we can either humbly repent or we can allow roots of bitterness to spring up, take root, and cause serious trouble.

    What is a root of bitterness?  This term is mentioned in Deuteronomy 29:18-19, when God commanded the Israelites to get rid of their foreign idols. I think it is worthwhile to put those verses in front of us.

“ …and you saw their abominations and their idols which were among them—wood and stone and silver and gold); so that there may not be among you man or woman or family or tribe, whose heart turns away today from the Lord our God, to go and serve the gods of these nations, and that there may not be among you a root bearing bitterness or wormwood; and so it may not happen, when he hears the words of this curse, that he blesses himself in his heart, saying, ‘I shall have peace, even though I follow the dictates of my heart’—as though the drunkard could be included with the sober.” (Deuteronomy 29:17-19 NKJV)

    A root of bitterness can crop up when we become resentful of being told what to do, what we have to change about ourselves, and/or what we have to give up.

    Have you experienced a root of bitterness yourself? I have! Usually, these roots first test the soil of our hearts when we are young and become resentful of our parents telling us “no” all the time.  And when they aren’t saying no, they’re telling us to ‘clean your room,’ ‘take out the garbage,’ and ‘lose that attitude!’ In our childish minds we may have even grown bitter and angry, plotting and planning parental avoidance methods, so as to bypass hearing their endless rules; and it made life miserable for everyone involved.

    When this same resistance transfers to God and His commands, we not only continue to make life harder for ourselves, but we also are endangering our souls and those around us (think on Matthew 18:6-9, Luke 17:1-2, Romans 14:13). We, like the mistaken Israelites, may say in our heart, ‘I don’t have to give that up, I can still have peace’ or ‘I don’t need to do EVERYTHING God says; His words are more suggestions for good behaviour than actual commands! I’m fine, I can just do what suits me! As long as I’m a good person and God loves me! It’s all good!’

    We cannot follow the dictates of our own heart and claim peace for ourselves. We cannot disregard God and think we will be counted among the righteous (1 John 3:4-10).

“Woe to the rebellious children,” says the LORD, “Who take counsel, but not of Me, and who devise plans, but not of My Spirit, that they may add sin to sin.”” (Isaiah 30:1 NKJV) 

    True peace only comes from God. His ways are constant – they do not/will not become obsolete or outdated – they are consistent in their benefit and their wisdom! God tells us that if we want to have a good life and a peaceable life, we need to depart from evil and do good, we need to seek peace and chase after it diligently, we need to tirelessly pursue it (Psalm 34:11-15, 1 Peter 3:10-12)! We must do all that is necessary on our part to always come back to a place of peace with God first, and then live at peace with others around us (Romans 12:18).

    Are you ready to deny self, take up the cross and follow Jesus in obedience to all God has commanded (Matthew 16:24-26) for your own sake and for the sake of others around you? It is an essential part needed to flourish in peace! God’s ways are a perpetual benefit! His commands are abounding with wisdom! Turn away from your own notions of what you think is good, let God’s words guide you towards true peace!

You can do it! So can I!! 

Flourishing in Peace with Holiness

“Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord.” (Hebrews 12:14 NKJV)

    We need to make every effort to live in peace and to be peaceable (Romans 12:18), but it should never come at the expense of our holiness; without holiness we will not see the Lord.

    Holiness means to be set apart, sacred. It means that we speak/behave less like the world and speak/behave more like the Lord: in love (1 Corinthians 13:1-13, 1 John 4:7-11, 17), in purity (1 John 3:1-3), and in holiness (1 Peter 1:15-16)  

• We need to be kind without becoming soft toward sin.
• We need to be loving without disregarding or watering down God’s truth.
• We need to be just without lacking in mercy and compassion.

    Jesus exemplified all these qualities for us. He maintained His holiness while teaching and admonishing people. He loved people so much that He couldn’t bear to let them remain unknowledgeable about God and His goodness. He pointed people toward the One source from which they could obtain true peace. He, with love, corrected them, guided them, and taught them.

    “Speaking the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:14-15) will go a long way in helping others know God and it will help us to grow up in Jesus! There are so many man made doctrines, and “the trickery of men” is all around us, leading unknowledgeable people astray – they seek peace but cannot find it in ever-changing/constantly-adapting doctrines – but with God there is TRUE PEACE, because with God we find the Truth that has never and will never change (1 Peter 1:22-25), allowing us to know without doubt how to be holy and acceptable Him and how to remain holy and acceptable to Him (read and consider Romans 12:1-2)!

    Think on these things and consider these verses today:

“Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.” (James 5:19-20 NKJV)

“Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:1-2 NKJV)

“But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life. And on some have compassion, making a distinction; but others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire, hating even the garment defiled by the flesh.” (Jude 20-23 NKJV)

Side note: God is serious when it comes to warning the wicked and erring – He has always “rose early” to tell His children the truth and give warning (Jeremiah 7:13, 25, 25:4), sending His prophets to inform even the pagan nations to repent before it is too late (see the book of Jonah). Please read and consider Ezekiel 3:18-21 to understand just how important it is to God that people are warned away from their wickedness and sin.

    If we choose “peace” with man by remaining silent about the Truth and not warning them, we will not be holy as God is holy, we will not be at peace with Him, and our hopes of seeing the Lord will be diminished, but if we choose to be in peace with Him, we will learn to speak the truth in love, proclaim the true peace that is available to all (the gospel message, Ephesians 6:15), we will maintain our holiness, and our hopes to see Him will flourish!  

    We know the glories of God, His goodness, and His grace! Let’s never compromise our love and appreciation for Him by calling wrong, right (or ‘okay’), for the sake of “peace.” God calls us to be holy – that is top priority. Peace comes through speaking the truth in love.

    Are you ready to do that? Are you willing to stand against the wiles of the devil and speak God’s truth without compromise?

You can do it! So can I!!