Women Who Magnify God

    What better way to declare God's way as the best way than to know His will and joyfully fulfill it in our lives! When we find instruction, let's have a heart that is open to receiving it and applying it, so we, as women, can declare God's greatness to the world around us!

    As women, we have opportunity to use our talents to help others (Tabitha/Dorcas, Acts 9:36, 39). There is also more specific instruction given to older and young women in Titus 2:3-5:

"The older women likewise*, that they be reverent in behaviour, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things - that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed." (NKJV)

    Every single item in these verses applies to older women. How can you teach something that you, yourself, do not already know and do?

    And if you think you still have some years before these verses for "older women" apply to you, think again! If there is any woman younger than you, with whom you can influence by your example, you too are an 'older woman!' Begin now to understand the beauty and importance of fulfilling God's will in your role as a woman!

~ Note the asterisk (*) I added beside the word 'likewise' in the above passage. When we see the word 'likewise' we need to realize that a commonality is being expressed between two parties. In this case, there is an instruction given to the older men (in verse 2), that the
older women are also to adhere to.

"... the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; the older women likewise..." (Titus 2:2-3a NKJV)

    From this same passage we can understand the instruction to young women: love your husband's, love your children, be discreet, homemakers, good, obedient to your own husbands.

    So, older women are to be examples as well as teachers to the young women - likely one on one as a mother would be with a daughter, but I would love to see this stretch beyond the bonds of only teaching or feeling a realm of influence on our own daughters. Let each one of us embrace the women younger than us as daughters; women we can be examples to, whom we can influence toward godly goals.

    Older women, love and care for the hearts and souls of the young women. Look for opportunity to teach and influence them toward the things listed in Titus 2.

    Young women, look to the older women for guidance and encouragement. Respect them and their accumulated knowledge/experience/wisdom. Allow them to instruct you and teach you.

    The world around us wants us to see these verses in Titus as asphyxiating and constraining us from the 'freedom we deserve' as women. I want you to love God and understand His love for you, enough to see the absolute beauty He has given us to embody as women! We have a most wonderful role to fulfill - a role that takes us a lifetime to accomplish. Each day, let us grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ and take the steps necessary to apply what we are instructed to do in Titus 2.

    Why are we to do this? Why are we, as older women, supposed to take care to obey these commands/instructions and be examples and teachers to the young women? Why should young women listen to the older women's teaching and advice - don't they understand that times are different now and their experience is antiquated? Why are we to fulfill these instructions? 

    Read the last part of Titus 2:5 to find the answer: "that the word of God may not be blasphemed." 

    We follow these instructions, we fulfill God's command to us as women, so that when others observe us they see that we're on to something that truly works! They see us loving our husbands - not abusing them to our friends. They see us loving our children - raising them in an environment of nurturing and in the admonition of the Lord. They will observe women who are happy! Happy to help, happy to take care of their homes, happy to work; "doing the will of God from the heart"(Ephesians 6:6)! No one can make fun of God's word when they see it beautifully personified in our actions and behaviours! When they see how well it works and benefits us and those with whom we can have an influence; they will want to know more about Him - another opportunity to shine God's light into the darkness!!

You can do it! So can I!!

    Next week, the Lord willing, we will continue our theme of 'Women Who Magnify God' by examining of the role of a wife.